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Gregg R. Lewis
Trusted Family Law Services In Columbus

Benefits of divorce are not always tangible

| Oct 1, 2020 | Divorce |

When your marriage began to hit the rocks, you may have only felt the negative emotions associated with this type of situation. You may have begun to question whether you were a good spouse, whether you did what you could to make the relationship work and whether you chose the right person to marry. These concerns can certainly lead you down a road of feeling as if you made a mistake or have failed in your relationship.

If, after your best efforts, you still feel like your marriage will not go back to a happy and healthy relationship, you may consider divorce. Again, negative feelings may swarm you as you consider this option, but really, ending a marriage could have numerous upsides, depending on your exact situation.

Could divorce benefit you?

While the process of ending your marriage can certainly seem daunting and stressful, you may come out of it feeling lighter and unburdened. It is normal to have mixed emotions about the situation, as you likely did love your spouse in previous years and may question whether you are taking the right step, but you may also experience the following results after your case comes to an end:

  • Feeling less lonely because you can reconnect with friends and family rather than constantly worrying about your spouse’s inattention or inability to understand you
  • Removing other toxic or unnecessary relationships from your life, such as people who were friends with your spouse and not really friends with you
  • Feeling happier because you can choose how to live your life with hope and excitement rather than considering how your spouse might hinder or dissuade you from your goals
  • Rebuilding relationships with friends and family who may have fell to the wayside as you focused on your marital relationship or your relationship problems
  • Having the possibility of meeting someone new and forming a truly happy relationship

Divorce does not have to be all about who gets what or trying to get the most assets in order to reap the most benefits. The true benefits that come from ending an unhappy marriage may not be material.

How can you get the most out of your process?

Of course, favorable results from your divorce case can help set you up for leading a more fulfilling life. As a result, you will likely want to prepare ahead of time as best as possible. Having legal assistance from an experienced Ohio attorney could make a considerable difference in how smoothly your case proceeds.