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How much should you tell your kids about your divorce?

On Behalf of | Jan 14, 2025 | Divorce |

Divorce is a challenging time for families, and children often feel its impact deeply. Deciding how much to tell your kids about the divorce requires balancing honesty with protecting their emotional well-being. Parents must prioritize their children’s best interests when discussing sensitive issues.

Share age-appropriate information

Children need clear and simple explanations about what divorce means for them. Younger kids may only need to know basic details, such as changes in living arrangements. Older children might ask more questions and benefit from a bit more context. Avoid overwhelming kids with complex legal or financial details they cannot process.

Avoid blame and conflict

Ohio courts emphasize co-parenting and minimizing conflict in front of children. When discussing divorce, avoid criticizing the other parent or placing blame. Negative remarks can cause unnecessary stress and harm your child’s relationship with both parents. Instead, focus on the practical aspects of how the family will adapt to the changes.

Address their concerns

Children may worry about how the divorce will affect their daily lives. Reassure them that both parents will continue to love and support them. Encourage kids to express their feelings and answer their questions honestly, but without sharing unnecessary adult problems.

Maintain a routine

Consistency helps children feel secure during times of change. Explain how you plan to maintain routines for school, activities, and visitation schedules. Highlighting stability can ease anxiety and help kids adjust to the new family dynamic.

Divorce discussions should always center on protecting your child’s emotional health while being honest and supportive. With thoughtful communication, parents can help their kids feel safe and loved during and after the divorce.